There are, of course, plenty of people who still have a lot of hymen tissue when they first have sex. And some men lose their erections while trying — or give up — because they are worried about hurting their partners. Submit a new response. The only thing that made it worse was the look on her face: That means being fully aroused before penetration even begins.
Be sure to wear a condom next time you attempt intercourse with your boyfriend, as you can become pregnant or contract a sexually transmitted infection — even on the very first time.
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If you think you might be breaking in some young buck on his first ride, do him a favor and move at least once. So I suggested that she consider what could have happened had she and her partner taken it slower, not set herself up for one first time, and instead saw losing her virginity as a process. Far from being an almost impenetrable steel drum, the hymen has natural openings in it. There are plenty of virgins who are evil and there plenty of sexually active individuals who are innocent. Newsletters Sign up for the latest news and to win free tickets to events.