Still I get these mixed signals from him. Is there a possibility for her to come back if I use the No Contact Rule? We'll talk later, have a great day! And two months after his confession, we became official. I mean, going cold turkey is the only way to get over someone you love. There's a lot of fantasy here, but very little reality.
I think sometimes, life has to hammer us out thanks, Stewart, if you're still reading here ;- into the people we're supposed to be - through bad experiences that challenge us, our ways of thinking and our ways of seeing things and the world.
Think of it like this: When we reconnected again a year ago, we finally decided to date. He also said when I was pregnant that he has a girlfriend. If he continues to contact you, and you've yet to complete NC, perhaps reply to let him know that you need some space at the moment to deal with everything that has happened. Went out, did the mundane and pushed myself to continue to meet people. Even if she was damaged, I could have fixed it and we wouldn't feel this regret. The no contact rule is designed to give him the time and space to get past all the negatives from your relationship and remember what he misses about it.